Monthly Archives: January 2011

>Toxic Women (and Men)

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So when you read the Quran, you shall seek refuge in God from Satan the Stoned (The Quran 16/98)

The Quran 24/26: ‘Khabees’/Toxic women are for toxic men, and toxic men for toxic women. ‘Tayyib’/Wholesome women are for wholesome men, and wholesome men for wholesome women; such are innocent of that which people say: For them is pardon and a bountiful provision.


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Toxic Women

A woman is Toxic if she has embraced Feminism and lives according to it’s tenets of complete selfishness and irresponsibility for women. The toxic woman is very common and shows no signs of dying out. Indeed, Toxic women significantly outnumber non-Toxic women.

The Toxic woman thinks it is fine to strip a man of assets on divorce, fine to deny him access to his own children because it’s what she wants, it’s ok to sue her own employer or colleagues because she feels oppressed in some way, it’s the right thing to do to accuse a man of rape if he doesn’t cuddle her in the morning, it is justified for her to take jobs in the fire service, the police or the military and receive the same pay as men without having anything like the same ability or taking anything like the same risk.

It is not safe for a man to be alone with the Toxic woman and nor is it safe for him to drive her home or pay her a compliment – false accusations are ready to be flung by the toxic woman who tends to have a range of personality disorders.

The Toxic woman should not be dated, stood next to, employed or interacted with in any way by a man wishing to avoid enormous problems in his life.

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Exposing Feminism and the New World Order

Truth, Lies and the War on Men

Gender Equality Is Not Achievable – Ever

>’Husband-Wife Relations’ by Kashif Shahzada – A Special Twitter Lecture

>This is a special twitter lecture on Husband-Wife relations. (delivered at http://twitter.com/KashifShahzada . Also visit http://kashifshahzada.com/ )

Before understanding husband/wife relations need to understand attributes of man & woman

Fact#1 biologically man and woman are not the same.

Fact#2 Men’s physique is different from a woman’s.

Fact#3 Men grow beards & mustaches, women dont

Fact#4 Women get pregnant, men dont

Fact#5 women give birth, men dont

Fact#6 women get postnatal depression, men dont

Fact#7 women lactate, men dont

Fact#8 women can give undivided attention to child and naturally multi-task at other things, men cant

Fact#9 men’s sexual desire is more than that of women.

Fact#10 men have more strength than women

Fact#11 psychologically as well as physiologically, men & women are not the same. they R different. Its a scientific fact.

I have cited 11 facts proving that man is not equal to woman & vice versa. In their light is the success in marriage.

What is marriage. Union of man & woman agreeing to share life, material possession, emotions and all together.

Key to marital harmony is that both man and woman understand their roles vis a vis their NATURAL construction

Man’s roles should be according to his physique & talents, woman’s roles acc. to her physique & talents.

Man’s role acc to his body is strenous work, aggressive bargaining, hunting for opportunities, & bringing the kill home

Man’s role is to provide, and protect his family. work very hard and bring income home and spend on family.

Women’s role acc to her body is to make home beautiful, also herself beautiful for her husband & properly manage his money

Good husband is one who:

1) works hard & earns good living

2) protects and takes a stand for his family

3) is sexually interested in his wife & is not unfaithful. wife should also beautify and make herself alluring for her man

4) is the teacher of the family. teaches and becomes role model for children & also gives counsel in times of need

Good wife is one who:

1) listens and follows her husband and also gives him advice & consultation but doesnt insult him

2) she does not belittle her husband in the company of others or is disrespectful

3) she does not divulge her husband or family secrets and preserves her family dignity & honour

4) she makes her self sexually available to her husband and considers only one man to be the man in her life ie her husband

5) When the husband comes home tired from the days work, she makes him relax & entertains him

These were some principles of marital harmony. All points are deduced from Holy Qur’an, the Book of Islam.

>Death Penalty for Blasphemy: Is it Quranic?

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Everyone, please forward this to your family and friends. Thanks.

Quoting from Why The Death Penalty is un-Islamic?” by Kashif Shahzada

[2.0] Blasphemy

Blasphemy is the use of offensive, and derogatory language and visual representations against personalities revered and held in high esteem in a religion.

The Qur’an narrates that Prophets and believers were mocked, derided and subjected to abuse and persecution, but in face of all this, they were commanded to show restraint and be patient. There is no command to inflict the death penalty on those who hurl abuses. Indeed their act is heinous and sinful, and for which Allah will punish them in this world as well as the hereafter, but the believers are not called to exact revenge from them. Believers are enjoined not to utter words of contempt for anyone, even for the objects of worship of other religions

[2.1] It is Allah and not the believers who will punish those who hurt the Prophet (p) in this world as well as the next.
“Those who hurt God and His Messenger — them God has cursed in the present world and the world to come, and has prepared for them a humbling chastisement.” 33:57

As those who hurt the Prophet (p) will be punished by Allah in their own lifetime unless they repent, therefore believers exacting revenge and vengeance from them or invoking the death penalty for their offence does not arise. The matter is in Allah’s hands.


[2.2] The Qur’an has cited many instances where the unbelievers mocked, scoffed and used hurtful and annoying words towards the Prophet (p) (p.b.u.h). But the Prophet (p) (saw) did not penalise such offenders but exercised restraint as Allah commanded him to do so:
“And have patience over what they say, and leave them with noble (dignity).” (73:10)

The Prophet (p) acted on Allah’s command “..have patience over what they say..” and practised restraint on the hurtful words of unbelievers. In his life, the Prophet (p) was subjected to verbal and physical humiliation. There were attempts made on his life (8:30), he was accused of forgery (21:5), he was stigmatised as a man ‘possessed’ (23:70) and a ‘madman’ (68:2). But his personal reaction was adherence to the Quranic teachings of patience and restraint. As the Prophet (p) did not invoke the capital punishment for such offenders but used patience and restraint against the invectives and persecution, therefore this is proof that blasphemy although a grave sin, and which qualifies one for a divine curse, and punishment from Allah, is not a capital offence.


[2.3] Muslims are ordered to react with restraint when their faith is being abused and ridiculed and not exact revenge from the culprits.
“You shall surely be tried in your possessions and your selves, and you shall hear from those who were given the Book before you, and from those who are idolaters, much hurt; but if you are patient and godfearing — surely that is true constancy.” (3:186)

We are told that Muslims “..shall hear … much hurt..” but in face of this, they are not to exact vengeance or retribution but are ordered to have sabr(patience) and taqwa (righteousness). Similarly, in 4:140 Muslims are told that when their beliefs are ridiculed how they are to react:

“When ye hear the signs of Allah held in defiance and ridicule, ye are not to sit with them unless they turn to a different theme.” (4:140)

As the Qur’an prescribes to Muslims restraint, and distancing from the blasphemous persons, and has not advocated exacting vengeance, punishment or revenge, therefore this shows that blasphemy, although a grave sin, is not a capital offence mandating the death penalty.


[2.4] Those who commit blasphemy and even plot sedition are given an opportunity by Allah to repent. If capital punishment were invoked and they were to face the death penalty then they would not be able to avail the opportunity for repentance that Allah mentions in 9:74.
“They swear by God that they said nothing (evil), but indeed they uttered blasphemy, and they did it after accepting Islam; and they meditated a plot which they were unable to carry out: this revenge of theirs was (their) only return for the bounty with which God and His Apostle had enriched them! If they repent, it will be best for them; but if they turn back (to their evil ways), God will punish them with a grievous penalty in this life and in the Hereafter: They shall have none on earth to protect or help them.” (9:74)

The expression in above verse: “..If they repent, it will be best for them…” is clear evidence in demonstrating that those guilty of blasphemy, apostasy and sedition are not to face the death penalty as Allah has given them a chance for repentance and amendment of their conduct.